An unresolved conflict never goes unnoticed in life, whether it is
dealing with a situation, a fear, a loss, a mental aspect, an
expectation, a person, or a form of sorts. One must understand that if
an unresolved problem keeps popping up, then it is time to reason. One
doesn't just say, "Well I am not going to deal with it." No, one takes
the time to anaylize the situation, and says to him/herself, "What would
I do and would want to happen to me? How would I want to be treated in
this situation? And is there more to this story or situation that I
haven't yet seen or heard about?" Do this without judgement.
People tend to go into every conflict with already a preconceived notion of there own opinion and what is happening. The verdict has already been made, but a wise one would know that it isn't about getting the last word. That One does not see this as a failure, but a way to grow. Learning from others is very important. Knowing that within every situation lies a task, within that task are test, within the test are verdicts. Did I pass or fail? If you failed do not cry, or succumb to defeat, or belittle yourself, instead ask yourself these question,"How can I improve? What did I do wrong, which when the next task appears that I won't make the same mistake again?" A person always takes the time to learn the lessons. They don't jump to conclusions without knowing all. They learn patience, and they know that with patience comes teachings and a perfect timing to address a situation.
If something keep coming into your life and you just want to ignore it, I can about bet you that it will appear to you maybe not in the original form but in another. God knows what you need to learn. Over looking these task and lessons, one will start to fall backwards in life, and they wonder why they can't go anywhere. Then the thoughts of doubt and pity and fear come into play.
Always know that everyone is going through something and that running from a situation does absolutely nothing. Within ever decision you make is an intention. Now is the intention with good intention or bad? Is the intention to provoke, or to bring peace? Are you wanting to cause pain, or do you want to show that there is no reason to argue and to rise above that which has been brought in front of you?
The choice is yours. God has given us all the freedom of choice. Know no choice is wrong. To walk away or to not walk away? Is the question. Know when to do something. Know that sometimes that walking away is something that must be done for the soul if there is no way of a resolution. Ask God to help you with the situation. Ask God to help heal the hearts of others including your own. Ask God to show you how to deal with situations, and to bring peace to your very being, because without it lies a rumble of chaos. Always remember, that no matter the case, God will still love you. There is no right or wrong path. It just IS.
Have a blessed day...
CB.
People tend to go into every conflict with already a preconceived notion of there own opinion and what is happening. The verdict has already been made, but a wise one would know that it isn't about getting the last word. That One does not see this as a failure, but a way to grow. Learning from others is very important. Knowing that within every situation lies a task, within that task are test, within the test are verdicts. Did I pass or fail? If you failed do not cry, or succumb to defeat, or belittle yourself, instead ask yourself these question,"How can I improve? What did I do wrong, which when the next task appears that I won't make the same mistake again?" A person always takes the time to learn the lessons. They don't jump to conclusions without knowing all. They learn patience, and they know that with patience comes teachings and a perfect timing to address a situation.
If something keep coming into your life and you just want to ignore it, I can about bet you that it will appear to you maybe not in the original form but in another. God knows what you need to learn. Over looking these task and lessons, one will start to fall backwards in life, and they wonder why they can't go anywhere. Then the thoughts of doubt and pity and fear come into play.
Always know that everyone is going through something and that running from a situation does absolutely nothing. Within ever decision you make is an intention. Now is the intention with good intention or bad? Is the intention to provoke, or to bring peace? Are you wanting to cause pain, or do you want to show that there is no reason to argue and to rise above that which has been brought in front of you?
The choice is yours. God has given us all the freedom of choice. Know no choice is wrong. To walk away or to not walk away? Is the question. Know when to do something. Know that sometimes that walking away is something that must be done for the soul if there is no way of a resolution. Ask God to help you with the situation. Ask God to help heal the hearts of others including your own. Ask God to show you how to deal with situations, and to bring peace to your very being, because without it lies a rumble of chaos. Always remember, that no matter the case, God will still love you. There is no right or wrong path. It just IS.
Have a blessed day...
CB.
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